Advice is a form of nostalgia, dispensing it is a way of fishing the past from the disposal,
wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and recycling it for more than it’s worth.
People will always have a say on how they think you should live your life.
Based on their own frustrations/hopes/goals/things they think they have learned it their lives...
But in the end really, we have to be old enough to make our own decisions.
New life plan:
Do everything I want to do and love before finding a decent job,
which means living off my lifetime savings account drinking, traveling, eating, writing, taking pictures,
and when my money runs thin,
that's the time I get a job.
But just in time to finally settle down and marry a rich man who will continue to fund my life and pursuit in doing what I love,
even if it pays nothing at all.
Sounds like a plan to me.
It's fun being a girl.
Also in this way, I still get to be resistant against the dominating power of the patriarchal society by
letting the man pay for everything I want in life, while he slaves in the office providing for the family or being the pillar of the family or however the heck they want to call it.
He: blah blah blah, blah blah blah blah blah.
She: blah blah--
He: blah blah bah blah!
She: blah blah blah? blah blah bah!